Monthly Archives: September 2011

I’m a big fan of out-of-the-box thinking, something I came to during years when promised promotions, raises, and other dreams simply weren’t coming through.

During those disappointments and frustrations, the ability to see beyond the obvious to something not yet realized, was being cultivated in my life.

  • Denied promotions brought the urgency to pursue outside interests yielding relationships still treasured today
  • “Forced-on-me duties started out as “most hated” and turned into “most loved” (like writing the alumni magazine which built skills I’d need later as an author.)
  • Frustrating years of singleness included the freedom to DO more, FOR more, WITH more — far more than one single gal could have ever imagined she’d love so much

So many necessary talents, perspectives, nuggets of wisdom and credibility, come via unexpected means.  By persevering through every surprise turn we earn the “mental muscle reflex” that consistently EXPECTS something wonderful when disappointments happen.

Which leads me to the Missoni baby blanket……two weeks ago when Missoni for Target hit stores, I was traveling and unable to get into a store myself (though my wonderful assistant Whitney snagged a few requested items.)  I’m a long-time Missoni-fan, so a few days later, stores completely picked over, I spotted the beautiful blanket and knew instinctively I could use it for an original creation.  Maybe a pillow?  What about a shawl?  A dress became the final choice and I couldn’t be happier having this one-of-a-kind creation all my own.

The lesson?  Often our most creative moments come out of forced necessity.

What is frustrating you lately?  Keep flexing your “dreaming beyond the obvious” muscle and pray for creative insights to turn bummers into breakthroughs.  I promise you, hidden gifts (fashion or otherwise) await!


Putting our dreams in motion typically involves tension.  Writing my first book included lots of it — fears of failing, questions about how to begin and go from random internal concepts to something someone would actually buy and read.

After plowing through getting a literary agent, doing a book proposal, then pitching the concept to publishers, I was shocked when after only 3 weeks a publisher said YES!

Debbie Wickwire, the acquisitions editor at Thomas Nelson Publishers, told me after the contract was signed that for over two years they had been looking for a corporate woman with a Christian voice who could write a book for working women in the general market (vs. Christian market.)  “You were exactly what we had been praying for Lynette, and when we saw your proposal we knew it was a fit!”

This experience taught me a truth that is a crucial motivator when pursuing a dream:

Your dream is the answer to someone’s prayer.

We so often forget this, make light of our dreams, feel unqualified and unworthy of going for all we dream.

I had no idea that my dream of writing a book to encourage women fit perfectly with what the editors at Thomas Nelson had been hoping to find.  In fact, most days I believed the opposite.

Your dream is no different.  Someone out there NEEDS your dream, the dream you have in mind and the dream that will emerge as you go after it.

Maybe you feel unqualified, don’t know how to get started, keep hoping for some magic moment when all the right elements come together and poof, your dream just happens.  I know from experience it simply won’t happen that way, and every day you wait to get started is one more day denying someone else the answers they need.

Imagine if every person alive, including you, starts going for their dreams, all of them, one by one in all facets of their lives so that in turn, others can be the recipients of the outcomes of those dreams.

My simple advice is this….start articulating what you desire and hope can become a reality.  Lay aside your fears, quit waiting to feel qualified.  Do my 1-1-1 Strategy of taking one step once a week toward one dream.  Dreams in motion attract provision and if you will commit to at least getting started you will be amazed at doors that open and people you’ll meet.

Who needs your dream to become their dream fulfilled?

I’d love to hear about it and what you’re doing to make it happen.  Send me a Twitter message at Lynette_Lewis or via Facebook.

As always, I’m cheering you on….

 


Lynette opened the day for the 350 women attending, with a highly interactive “Building Personal Brand & Eminence” workshop/keynote address.  Many stood in line to get their books signed and express their gratitude.  One attendee remarked, “I’ve attended this conference for the last 3 years and this session was my all-time favorite, thank you!”


Enjoy this up close look into one of Lynette’s corporate speaking events where she addresses  a group of 50 women on topics from her book, including how to keep moving when you don’t know how, dreaming outside the job description, celebrating every season of your career, and how to let your voice be heard.  The Q&A section at the end gives insights into balancing life and work, dealing with naysayers, and how to become more strategic about where you want to go next at work and in life.

Leadership Lessons from a Life at Work